Releasing Your Family to God’s Destiny

     God has a destiny for your family. He has an individual plan for each member, as well as a “corporate” purpose for you as a family unit. God will help you, as parents, to train each child toward God’s mission for his or her life, and He will help you to focus your family toward making a strong impact for His kingdom – in your community, in your church, in your children’s schools, and in the world.

      The Bible says in Psalm 127:4, “Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth.”  …  “it’s not enough just to aim our arrows; to hit the target we’ve got to release the string!”

      … As I have thought about this need to totally release each of my children to God’s purposes, I have tried to imagine – in my own finite way – what our heavenly Father must have experienced when he released His Child. God never struggles, but I believe He can relate to my feelings (and yours). He too had to release His Son – His only Son – in order to fulfill His plans for this earth. 

      Imagine with me:

     What if someday God called one of my children to go on a summer mission trip to Calcutta, India?  Would I be able to send him or her with confidence and joy? If my husband and I prayed about the particular outreach and God gave us His peace about it, I know we would. My husband and I would uphold our child in prayer, and we would trust God’s direction. And as a mom, I would rely on Him for grace.

     But the sacrifice God made was far greater… 

     What if someday a child of ours decided to move to Calcutta, India for perhaps ten months … or ten years … or even longer? Could I handle that?  That would be much harder. Although it would be difficult to live so far apart, I would do my best to support him or her through regular prayer and communication (and I would definitely hope for email access!). If my grown child had a family, I would really miss getting to know my child’s spouse and his or her family; and I can hardly imagine how much I would yearn for time with those future grandchildren. Yet, if God was calling my child, I would let my child go … and rely on Him for extra grace.

     But God’s sacrifice was still far greater … 

     So, to take the analogy one step further, what if my husband and I, back in time about twenty years ago, were expecting our first child, and God told us that He wanted us to surrender this precious newborn – right from birth? What if God said He had chosen a poor couple in Calcutta, India, to raise our baby? What if He said our little one would grow up in some obscure squatter village … would live among filth and poverty … would spend his life helping people … and in the end, would be rejected, hated, and brutally  killed by the very people he was sent to help? Would I send my son to do that? How could I?

     But (perhaps) that is a glimpse of what God did for us.

     … Just as God released His Son for us, we need to totally release each of our children – again, and again, every day – for His eternal purpose.

     (exerpt from The Mission Minded Family by Ann Dunagan)